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Helping Your Child Transition Away from Screens Before Bedtime

A structured overview of what credible sources and parent perspectives commonly say about this topic.

Quick answer

To help your child transition away from screens before bedtime, create a predictable, calming routine lasting 20-30 minutes that includes activities like a bath, teeth brushing, and reading. Alternatives to screen time include reading books, quiet play, or listening to soft music. Avoid screens and stimulating activities at least an hour before bed.

At a glance

Most common inToddlers and preschool-aged children
Usually meansReplacing stimulating screen time with calming, screen-free activities before sleep
What helps mostConsistent bedtime routines with limited, age-appropriate choices and screen removal
AvoidUsing screens in the hour before bed, rough play, sugary snacks, and lengthy bedtime negotiations
Look closer ifBedtime resistance lasts weeks or is paired with daytime sleepiness or behavioral issues

Things to try now

What to do now

  • 1Remove all screens from the child's bedroom and turn off devices at least one hour before bedtime.
  • 2Establish a calming bedtime routine including a bath, teeth brushing, and reading a book.
  • 3Offer your child a choice between two pajamas or two books to read to give them a sense of control.

What to say

  • It's time to turn off the screens now so your body can get ready for sleep.
  • Which pajamas would you like to wear tonight?
  • Let's pick a story to read together before you go to sleep.

What to practice consistently

  • Stick to the same bedtime routine every night to build predictability.
  • Keep the bedroom environment cool, dark, and quiet to encourage sleep.
  • Avoid stimulating activities and sugary snacks in the hour before bed.

What to avoid

  • Using screens or electronic devices in the hour before bedtime.
  • Engaging in lengthy conversations or negotiations when the child resists bedtime.
  • Using the bedroom as a place for punishment or time-outs.

These are common approaches mentioned in sources and by parents. They are informational, not prescriptive.

What this usually involves

  • Establishing a predictable sequence of calming activities such as bathing, brushing teeth, and reading
  • Removing screens from the bedroom and avoiding screen use at least one hour before bedtime
  • Offering limited choices to the child (e.g., which pajamas or story) to foster a sense of control
  • Keeping the sleep environment cool, dark, and quiet to support sleep
  • Avoiding stimulating activities like rough play and sugary snacks before bed
  • Calmly and briefly returning the child to bed if they leave after lights-out without engaging in long conversations

Related questions

How long before bedtime should screens be turned off?

Common guidance is to turn off screens at least one hour before bedtime to reduce stimulation.

What are good calming activities before bed besides reading?

Other calming activities include taking a warm bath, listening to soft music, or quiet play with favorite toys.

How can I help my child who resists bedtime despite a routine?

Offer limited choices to give a sense of control, calmly return them to bed without lengthy discussion, and consult a pediatrician if resistance persists.

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2026-06-03

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